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How to ask a girl out (or for anything else)
May 10th
please, please, please go on a date with me? No? pleeeeease?
Would you like me to kick you in the shin?
The 99% of people would say a definite “NO” to this answer. I mean who really wants a kick in the shin?
What if I rephrased the question, would people say yes to a kick in the shin?
Would you prefer a kick in the shin or a punch in the face?
Instantly we’ll have the other 99% of people request a kick in the shin.
This all stems from a sales technique – “Don’t give people the option you don’t want them to choose.”
In this technique you learn to ask people either or questions or you assume the answer then then give them a “when” question. When applied to dating it can communicate confidence as well as weed out any chance for her to say no.
Here is how it works – “We should grab a coffee sometime, what day works best for you?” – Here you have assumed that the answer to grabbing a coffee will be yes and you’ve given them the option to set time. By asking an open ended question it makes it difficult and socially awkward for the person to say NO unless the ultimately think you are a creep they will respond with a day and time they are free and then you can go from there. Ultimately an attractive girl will be approached thousands of times in her life and as she doesn’t have the time to meet all thousand guys for coffee she has developed an automatic “no” response, using this style of asking will ensure that her automatic “no” will be averted and she will actually get the chance to meet you.
It’s National High-Five Day
Apr 15th
You know what that means? You’ve got a day of conversation openers at your disposal. So go out, high-five and let the fun naturally develop.
Go Out and High-Five Yourself a Jungle Cat Today!
Post a comment, let us know how your High-Five day opener went.
PS: I’m not just making this up, http://www.nationalhighfiveday.com/
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Planning the Ultimate Bachelor Party – Part 1
Mar 30th
The man, the shirt, the results.
Last July, Myself, Xander and a few other friends descended upon the San Francisco Bay Area for a week of fun, excitement and “Woo”.
Xander was charged with being the best man, planning, arranging and putting everything together. He had a lot on his plate so I offered up my ideas and my labour to help him get everything he needed done. On the flight in we started trying to conceptualize the bachelor party. Sure, you can take a guy out to a trashy strip club, you can take him paint balling, golfing or to a shooting range.
What we wanted to do was show him a no rule, no limit night of fun. Think louder than 11.
Here’s how we did it…
2 weeks prior to the wedding we decided that t shirts would be needed, a form of peacocking for the night, a way to bring the team feeling together on our night out, and finally a way for us to help find each other in a crowded club. Our shirts were safety green and hot pink, it was impossible to not spot any of us from 1000 yards. Luckily we did not have to try to hide from the police.
2 days prior to the wedding was the day set for the bachelor party. Why? it’s enough time to ensure that all parties involved can be bailed out of jail, found on the roof of a casino, replaced, etc. Further more it allows all hangovers to be recovered from. We also used hotwire.com to find a cheap hotel room, we managed to get a $500 a night room in a downtown hotel for less than $100. This provided a base of operation as well helped set the tone for the night, imagine your friends taking you into a 5 diamond hotel (not star, diamond…) to start your night, remember, it’s always about context.
Once in the hotel we had a few shots, got ready, surprised the groom once again with the t-shirts and some good scotch to drink. He was already buzzing from excitement. This night was destined for greatness.
We had previously found out where his favourite pub was and started there for food and drinks. Xander called in advance to book a large table and get friendly with the manager. During this phone call he set it up that this place was the Groom’s favourite place and that we would be celebrating his coming nuptials. This takes a page from “the bouncer is your friend”. On arrival the entire staff was aware why we were they and made us right at home, providing excellent service, free drinks.
Stay tuned for part two and the secret of the checklist…
How to get laid on Vacation – Guest post by Hydro
Mar 25th
This week’s guest post is by Hydro from www.openseduction.blogspot.com
Hydro’s Top 5 tips to get laid on Vacation!!
1. Talk to everybody.
Vacations are that time of the year where everybody is out there to have fun therefore everybody is going to be friendly with you. People that live on vacation spots are used to talk to tourists and they’re awkwardly friendly most of the times… so talk to everybody, the hotel manager, the waitress, the taxi driver EVERYBODY!!. If you get into a talkative mode before going out it’ll be easy for you start conversations with new women.
2. Be confident.
I know all the puas and everybody say this but it’s necessary, EVEN on vacations. You have to be sure of who you are and what do you want, so women will be more attracted to you. The best way to be confident during vacations is to DON’T GIVE A FUCK about anything. Yup that’s the best and easier way to be confident. Vacations are meant to be fun so don’t waste your time thinking what other people would think about you. They don’t care so shouldn’t either. Anyways you won’t see them ever again…
3. Go to a popular vacation spot.
If what you want on your vacations is sex and fun go to a popular vacation spot. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one but one that you know that gets crowded. Before going to anyplace check over the internet what people are saying about that place and do some research about that place so you would know which clubs you should visit.
4. Take it easy with the drinks.
I know some people no need more reason than a break to fall into drinking and get shit-faced but I mean you can do it but if what you’re looking is sex (and I assume you are cause you’re reading my blog) then DO NOT get fucked up!! I mean you can have some drinks and have fun but your goal is to score women!! Women will be drunk as well and 2 drunk people aren’t a good combination for sex (one or the other will be throwing out BELIEVE ME !! hahaha ) so if what you’re looking for is sex, don’t get drunk…
5 be aware of your cock-blocking friends.
Almost nobody goes on vacation alone, and well I’ve had some experiences where if I get laid and my friends don’t they try everything to cock-block me… I know friends can act weird sometimes, so a good idea would be to ask the hotel manager for 2 or 3 keys of your room so all of your friends can have one and they won’t be bothering you when you’re laying on this hot girl’s hot tub 
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IDM Challenge – RULES OF THE GAME
Mar 22nd
If you want to play the Game, you’ve got to know the Rules.
In his international bestseller The Game, Neil Strauss delved into the secret world of pickup artists—men who have made a science out of the art of seduction. Now, in this bestselling companion book, Strauss breaks down the knowledge he learned and techniques he invented into simple step-by-step instructions that anyone can follow to have success with women. This expanded one-volume edition of Rules of the Game includes a new preface and a whole new book of powerful, field-tested word-for-word routines, published here for the first time. You don’t need money, looks, or fame to succeed with women. All you need is an understanding of how attraction works—and this thirty-day workout program for your social skills, which has already guided tens of thousands of men from frustration to fulfillment.
Starting in Mid April, Xander and myself will go through the entire 30 day challenge making regular posts summing up the challenges as well as our results. You can pick up a copy from here and play along:
Stop Being Single!
Mar 20th
Keychain, one of the worlds top pick up artists is writing for – Staggered, a UK based blog/magazine that is related to all things being a Stag (a.k.a. groom). The site has some great articles for those of you who are about to have your balls chopped off and put into a purse.
For those of you that want to have your balls chopped off (married) check out his posts here. He promises that you’ll end up with a girlfriend. If you really want to start dating, he knows his stuff and it’s all good advice.
Tynan’s speech: Not Taking Risks is Risky.
Feb 20th
One of our favorites on our blog is Tynan. You might know Tynan from his role in the Neil Strauss book – The Game as “Herbal”. Since then Tynan has branched out into living life as all sorts of awesome.
Check out this video on why it’s important to take risks and why not taking risks will kill you.
Outcome Vs. Interaction
Feb 13th
Zombies want.... OUTCOME! Don't be a zombie.
I’ve recently been doing some globe trotting and have experienced both fantastic interaction based experiences and some not so fantastic outcome based experiences.
Let’s set up a quick definition: Focusing on the interaction means that you are living in the moment, not thinking about what will happen based on this interaction and that that possibilities are wide open. Focusing on the outcome is the opposite, it creates a contrived situation where the focus is on one particular outcome, the parties involved know this and the possibilities are quite narrow.
How To Pick Up a Girl Online
Feb 8th
We’ve previously covered the Do’s and Do not’s of profile photos. This applies from everything from Facebook, LinkedIn, Myspace as well as any dating website. As our world moves online more and more people are busy and turning to free dating websites like http://www.plentyoffish.com and pay for use sites like http://www.match.com . Whether you are paying for the service or not you want to make sure that when you do send a message that you get a response. We recently set up a fake profile on Plenty of Fish to see what type of messages the average attractive girl receives. Read the rest of this entry »
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