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Tynan’s speech: Not Taking Risks is Risky.
Feb 20th
One of our favorites on our blog is Tynan. You might know Tynan from his role in the Neil Strauss book – The Game as “Herbal”. Since then Tynan has branched out into living life as all sorts of awesome.
Check out this video on why it’s important to take risks and why not taking risks will kill you.
http://www.vimeo.com/8985164Outcome Vs. Interaction
Feb 13th
Zombies want.... OUTCOME! Don't be a zombie.
I’ve recently been doing some globe trotting and have experienced both fantastic interaction based experiences and some not so fantastic outcome based experiences.
Let’s set up a quick definition: Focusing on the interaction means that you are living in the moment, not thinking about what will happen based on this interaction and that that possibilities are wide open. Focusing on the outcome is the opposite, it creates a contrived situation where the focus is on one particular outcome, the parties involved know this and the possibilities are quite narrow.
How To Pick Up a Girl Online
Feb 8th
We’ve previously covered the Do’s and Do not’s of profile photos. This applies from everything from Facebook, LinkedIn, Myspace as well as any dating website. As our world moves online more and more people are busy and turning to free dating websites like http://www.plentyoffish.com and pay for use sites like http://www.match.com . Whether you are paying for the service or not you want to make sure that when you do send a message that you get a response. We recently set up a fake profile on Plenty of Fish to see what type of messages the average attractive girl receives. Read the rest of this entry »
Guest Post: How to Catch a Cougar
Jan 28th
This Week’s Guest Post comes from Hydro over at – http://openseduction.blogspot.com/
Disclaimer – Guest posts do not always reflect the views of IDM. We offer them to mix up content on here and allow you, the reader to make the call on whether you agree or disagree. We look forward to hearing your thoughts on our guest contributor posts buy commenting at the bottom of each post. – Jay
How to date cougars!!
Have you ever been at work, school or even the supermarket when you see that SUPER hot girl, who looks more like a godness than a woman? Who looks more like an impossible challenge than an easy test???? Well she is called cougar or MILF!
What’s The Worst That Could Happen?
Jan 21st
http://www.vimeo.com/8706167
Approaching a woman will never be this hard, even though it might seem like this could happen, it won’t. Go out there and get your approach on.
Sam Sharpe – A Girls Guide
Jan 6th
Here at IDM we always want to encourage guest posts. Our field of knowledge is great, but sharing information is the best part of the web. I’m proud to introduce Sam Sharpe, a professional writer who will (hopefully) writing some regular posts here on IDM.
A Girls Guide– Sam Sharpe
About a month ago, I was spilling my single sorrows to my wonderfully straight platonic life partner, Logan, and for the first time he must have been sick of it because he looked at me and said plainly “Sam, you’re too fucking picky”. He was right. In the many months that I have been single, which almost add up to a year, I have been on exactly twenty-two first dates, only three of which leaded to a second date, and none became anything more than a bad memory. Eventually, out of boredom and frustration, I started suggesting the same restaurant, at the same time, ordered the same dish, and got the same disapproving looks from the wait staff. I stopped caring because I knew not one of them would hold my interest for longer than a night. So what did they all do wrong? Read the rest of this entry »
80’s Dating Montage
Oct 25th
We can’t always take ourselves seriously. Enjoy the video for a laugh. I really enjoy the “Hi Mom” guy. What? why would you say hi to your mom on a dating video?
http://www.dailymotion.com/videoxaf03zHow to pick up women – A Video
Oct 13th
We stumbled across this video on the intersphere. Watching this guy with the hidden camera is great, he demonstrates confidence and inner comfort which the women respond to right away. Of course Doctor Phil demonizes this guy from the get go but he redeems himself in helping shy guys meet girls.
His secrets? Once again, confidence and comfort.
You can check your ego at the door though, you don’t need to be egotistical and self loving to be confident and comfortable, although it’s a tough tray to balance.
Worth a watch.
A Road Less Traveled – Highway Flirting
Sep 13th
Take Your Game On the Road
We sit in a bar completely engrossed in our conversation while everyone else is left to listen. We always seem to have competing stories when we get on “adventurous” topics and I’ll admit the score to date is still in her favour. The remainder of our friends often sit and drink in the ridiculous topic matter, or at least politely wait it out. Stephanie is an adventurous blond, a leader full of goals and ideals and yet is always open to having those challenged through intelligent banter. By all accounts she’s a catch: She knows how to flirt, she’s rarely reserved about any topics and she’ll put you in your place if she feels you’re out of line. Sometimes I wonder how it is that her and I met through this current network of friends – a politically charged group of young professionals who, though awesome in their own right, are far conservative on the social front than Steph and I. Steph is now off the market. In fact in three weeks I’m to play the music for her wedding service at a valley resort somewhere west of Halifax, Nova Scotia – and I couldn’t be happier for her.
“Oh, that’s called ‘Highway Flirting’”
Oh, it already has a title in Steph’s Book? Of Course. It was all I could think when Steph chimed in on my recount of a recent road trip adventure…
Xander’s “Choose Your Own Adventure” Part 2: Highway Flirting
How to Have Fun… Anywhere
Aug 29th
This Way to Adventure
I’m ditching scripts – if you didn’t gather from the first post, I’m going au’naturel – and I’m having a lot of fun doing it, though it can be scary as hell…
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