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Tynan’s speech: Not Taking Risks is Risky.
Feb 20th
One of our favorites on our blog is Tynan. You might know Tynan from his role in the Neil Strauss book – The Game as “Herbal”. Since then Tynan has branched out into living life as all sorts of awesome.
Check out this video on why it’s important to take risks and why not taking risks will kill you.
http://www.vimeo.com/8985164Outcome Vs. Interaction
Feb 13th
Zombies want.... OUTCOME! Don't be a zombie.
I’ve recently been doing some globe trotting and have experienced both fantastic interaction based experiences and some not so fantastic outcome based experiences.
Let’s set up a quick definition: Focusing on the interaction means that you are living in the moment, not thinking about what will happen based on this interaction and that that possibilities are wide open. Focusing on the outcome is the opposite, it creates a contrived situation where the focus is on one particular outcome, the parties involved know this and the possibilities are quite narrow.
Sam Sharpe – A Girls Guide
Jan 6th
Here at IDM we always want to encourage guest posts. Our field of knowledge is great, but sharing information is the best part of the web. I’m proud to introduce Sam Sharpe, a professional writer who will (hopefully) writing some regular posts here on IDM.
A Girls Guide– Sam Sharpe
About a month ago, I was spilling my single sorrows to my wonderfully straight platonic life partner, Logan, and for the first time he must have been sick of it because he looked at me and said plainly “Sam, you’re too fucking picky”. He was right. In the many months that I have been single, which almost add up to a year, I have been on exactly twenty-two first dates, only three of which leaded to a second date, and none became anything more than a bad memory. Eventually, out of boredom and frustration, I started suggesting the same restaurant, at the same time, ordered the same dish, and got the same disapproving looks from the wait staff. I stopped caring because I knew not one of them would hold my interest for longer than a night. So what did they all do wrong? Read the rest of this entry »
Guest Post – Zan Perrion Ars Amorata – The Source of Attraction and The Paradox of Love
Nov 26th
This Week we are featuring a Guest Post from Hans Comijn.
The Source of Attraction and The Paradox of Love
In my quest for beauty, my desire to celebrate and be immersed in female energy, I often wonder what it is in women that I love so much. I travel a lot with Zan, and when asked “What is it you miss the most during your travels?” the answer for me goes along the lines of “a place of rest… with a woman who comforts and nurtures me”. As Zan puts it, “My head on a woman’s breast, with her caressing my hair and telling me everything will be all right…” And I wonder… could it be that this image describes the essence of a woman – she nurturing me, the traveller, taking care of me, providing a place where I can lay my head to rest… is that the core of female energy?
I also wonder if my traveling is the essence of male energy.
Being a Natural With Women Vs. Learning to be Good With Women.
Nov 17th
A lot of people believe that learning to be good with women, relationships, sex and the like makes it less real. It becomes fake, false, unreal, contrived.
Show me a natural in any sport and I’ll show you someone who has put in more time than any other athelte in their league. Any skill you learn, be it language, walking, counting, all were false, contrived and difficult until you made it part of you. Put in your time, practice, learn, review. After all, being a natural is something you become, not something you are born with.
On Being Attractive to Women
Nov 13th
Zan Perrion is an alternative to the traditional style of picking up women. He’s a natural lover, like Casanova, Don Juan and Voltaire, he doesn’t rely on opinion openers, peacocking or gimmicks. He is a man, and he’s not sorry for being one. I’ve become a big fan of his and have been evolving into a natural style game. Confidence, Power, Sexuality, Fun, and most of all existing outside of your head.
Check out this video of Zan talking about looks and what makes men attractive to women.
80’s Dating Montage
Oct 25th
We can’t always take ourselves seriously. Enjoy the video for a laugh. I really enjoy the “Hi Mom” guy. What? why would you say hi to your mom on a dating video?
http://www.dailymotion.com/videoxaf03z8 things you can do to drive her wild in the bedroom
Oct 1st
- Pull her hair – where her hair meets the back of her neck gently grab a handful of hair and slowly pull it. This taps into our primal days and will help arouse her. Do this when you are kissing for extra points.
- Take your time. When you start to kiss her, when you move to her nether regions, take your time don’t rush in, let the anticipation build, tease her, make her beg for you to enter her.
- Pin her down, use your weight and your strength to pin her hands to the mattress. Then ravish her, kiss her lips, her neck, etc. Once again tapping into the primal days.
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Busy Times at I date models
Aug 22nd
Hey Guys and Girls.
We missed a post last week. Things have been busy here at IDM (as we all are involved in other projects and it seems to be crunch time for most of us. Xander will be back soon with a new post and I’ll be writing some peices when I get back from the road.
In the mean time I have a few daily challenges for you to help get you outside of the box.
1. Sit down on the floor and take a breath. Next time you are at Starbucks, the grocery store. Have a seat and see how it feels. See how people react to you sitting in the middle of the floor. Live outside the box.
2. Meet 3 new people today. Try Xander’s technique of “Hi, I’m Xander” and extend your hand. See where it goes.
3. Feeling tired? a little bored? out of energy? Hit the floor and do some pushups. Does it change the wall you feel?
Guest Writer “T” the Storyteller on FEELING, being sexy, and being REAL
Mar 14th
What’s up LA and beyond. So, a girlfriend of mind invited me out for sushi the other night and I knew they did dancing afterwards. Knowing that plays a large part on how I am going to dress for the evening. What makes a guy look HOT? What makes a woman turn her head when you walk into a room — then pause so that her girlfriend that’s sitting across from her stops talking to look up at you, then back at her, who is still looking at you? What makes a whole table of women turn to you with a fuck-me look in their eyes, much to the chagrin of their male counterparts sitting next to them?
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