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How to Have Fun at a Night Club (aka BRING THE WOO)
Jul 18th
Cause they need you to bring the woo.
Let me set the stage. It’s day 7 of an 8 day stop in San Francisco. The previous 6 days had been unreal. VIP rooms, table service, having an amazing time in a huge range of situations and all in all, partying it up in the Bay Area and living life awesome.
We are in a hot club downtown and I’m not really feeling the crowd. It’s not my usual style of club, a little more urban than I’m used to. I lean over to one of my wings and advise him of my thoughts and how we should roll somewhere else. He turns and looks at me and says:
Man, it’s a club, just like any other club, you aren’t feeling it, not that it’s not to be felt. you are just choosing to not to.
Guest Writer “T” the Storyteller on FEELING, being sexy, and being REAL
Mar 14th
What’s up LA and beyond. So, a girlfriend of mind invited me out for sushi the other night and I knew they did dancing afterwards. Knowing that plays a large part on how I am going to dress for the evening. What makes a guy look HOT? What makes a woman turn her head when you walk into a room — then pause so that her girlfriend that’s sitting across from her stops talking to look up at you, then back at her, who is still looking at you? What makes a whole table of women turn to you with a fuck-me look in their eyes, much to the chagrin of their male counterparts sitting next to them?
Women make me Nervous – Approach Anxiety
Nov 11th
I remember the feeling, it was my turn next. I raised my hand to state my intentions, everyone stopped and looked at me, the Halfpipe was easily 8 feet higher than anything I had ever ridden before. I had no choice, I had stated my intentions to the rest of the riders, I rolled down the slope toward the wall. As the speed built up I felt freed from the nervousness, I knew what I was doing, sure maybe this halfpipe was bigger than normal but the feeling was the same – excitement, nervousness and the rush of adrenaline. Before I knew it I was launched into the air, the board came up to meet my hand and I tweaked an big grab like I was an X-Games competitor. The rest of the ride through the halfpipe was relaxed and fluid. I knew what I was doing and the nervousness had faded. I can definitely say each time I stood before the 20 foot Superpipe in Whistler, British Columbia the nervousness was always there. As the season went on I became more and more comfortable with that feeling and I learned to embrace it.
So what does snowboarding have to with this website? Well Read the rest of this entry »
What’s The Worst That Can Happen?
Nov 9th
I’d like to share a story that I just heard told by Doc, a psychologist from Canada who specializes in Dating and Relationship advice. His version of “What’s the worst that can happen?” in an interaction with a woman he just met.
(I’ll paraphrase a bit)
I was in Boston on business with my brother and we thought we’d go out for a drink at a pub down the road. I went up to the bar to order a drink and I noticed the girl standing beside me was quite attractive. It was cold that night, so she had her sweater draped over shoulders and not on properly. So, being the playful flirty guy that I am, I grabbed the arms of her sweater, flung them around as I laughed and said, “hey you, where are your arms?” She looked at me with a sour look on her face and said “I don’t have any arms. I’m an amputee.” and showed me the stumps where her arms were. Ouch. Then her friends, who overheard the conversation, yelled at me, “what a jerk! How can you be so insensitive?!”
Improve your body language: Part 1
Oct 16th
Envision for a moment, a cat ready to pounce on a bird, how do we know it’s not just laying down? From the coiled muscles ready to unleash on it’s prey we can tell it’s ready to strike. We know if a dog is friendly or not and we can tell when our friend/girlfriend/mom is pissed off at us by the way they hold themselves.
Most people don’t generally have an awareness of how they are using their body language. They allow their emotions and natural instincts to express themselves freely. This is a good thing for you! Why? Well, we can learn to read people and how they are feeling and we can adjust our body language/expression/tone to them.
So here is your first assignment as a student of having a better life. I want you to head to a cafe or local night spot and just sit and watch a few groups of people see how they interact and watch their body language and facial expressions. Are they having fun? Are they angry? Sad? Mad? Nervous? Here are some clues to get you started:
Nobody wears condoms anymore
Oct 9th
We are excited to introduce all of you to our regular female contributor the sexy and flirtatious Cailean. She will be offering the female point of view. You’ll be able to identify her posts through the “Cailean” tag and by her photo that accompanies the post below, and yes, that is really her.
As the calendar turned to October, I decided to lose my summer fling. I flung him off like a 5 inch stiletto after a long night of dancing. He was not boyfriend material so why prolong the agony? There’s not much to say when you break off a fling. There’s no “I need my stuff back” moments and no awkward “it’s not you, it’s me” conversations to have. That’s why they call them flings! It’s fun, I flinged then I flung and now I move on. For a girl like me , moving on is easy. Some say I’m jaded by love gone wrong, I think I’m a smart modern woman who knows what she wants and isn’t going to settle for anything less than butterflies.
Scotch…
Oct 5th
Ranging from $10 to over $50 000 a bottle this caramel coloured oaked alcohol is best served with a splash of water. Originally known as Usquebaugh or it is now referred to as Whisky and known as “the water of life”. Scotch It’s the true man’s drink and I’ll explain why.
To be called Scotch whisky the spirit must conform to the standards of the Scotch Whisky Order of 1990. Which are:
Top 10 Ways To Meet the Woman/Man of your Dreams:
Oct 3rd
I was walking to the store one day and happened upon a broken down bus full of Supermodels. They instantly realized that I was a really cool and unique guy, many of them professed their love for me, but alas I had to pick one. Out of the two dozen beauties, I chose the one I liked best, she was everything I had ever dreamed of, she loved beer, football and even enjoyed watching me play video games. I asked her to marry me, she said yes and since then everything has been perfect.
Unfortunately everything after “I was walking to the store one day” is not true. In fact life doesn’t work like that, because if it did we’d all be dating supermodels, and driving million dollar cars.
Together lets say it out loud: “my dream girl Is NOT Going to fall into my lap” furthermore nothing falls in your lap not your dream job, not your dream car, nothing you dream of. It’s going to take “effort” and “dedication” if you don’t think you have those then you should stop reading and head over www.collegehumor.com and waste some time watching pointless videos of stupid undergrads.
Still with me? Good. Relationships, Jobs, Life the list goes on. these things all have one thing in common. If you want a good one you are going to have to step out of your comfort level, you are going to have stop doing what you are doing and make something out of yourself. Grab your balls (or ovaries) and let’s go
10 ways to meet the person of your dreams:
- Are you a Runner? a Baseball player? Into cars? You probably won’t meet a person with similar interests at clubs and bars. There are too many people there and the odds are not stacked in your favour. So let’s stack the odds, how? By joining a community group, association, or a start attending events that are all related to what interests you. Meet someone that is interested in fine art at a art show, wine at a wine tasting, baseball at a baseball game. Sounds crazy doesn’t it? Oh wait, not at all. Read the rest of this entry »
In defense of conversational routines
Sep 24th
People use conversational routines all the time, they just don’t realize it. Ask yourself, the last time someone you just met said to you, “what do you do for a living?”You probably said “I’m a photographer/freelance writer/etc.” Or maybe you gave a little one-line explanation of what your job is. And now think back to the time before that when someone asked you the same question. You likely said the same thing, and I’d be willing to bet that unless you are an extremely creative and spontaneous individual you probably even phrased your answer the exact same way.
The point is that we all have conversational routines for the questions that we hear regularly. This is not a bad thing. It’s only a bad thing if you haven’t given any thought to your answers.
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