Guest Post: How to Catch a Cougar

This Week’s Guest Post comes from Hydro over at – http://openseduction.blogspot.com/

Disclaimer – Guest posts do not always reflect the views of IDM. We offer them to mix up content on here and allow you, the reader to make the call on whether you agree or disagree. We look forward to hearing your thoughts on our guest contributor posts buy commenting at the bottom of each post. – Jay

How to date cougars!!

Have you ever been at work, school or even the supermarket when you see that SUPER hot girl, who looks more like a godness than a woman? Who looks more like an impossible challenge than an easy test???? Well she is called cougar or MILF!

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Sam Sharpe – A Girls Guide

Here at IDM we always want to encourage guest posts. Our field of knowledge is great, but sharing information is the best part of the web. I’m proud to introduce Sam Sharpe, a professional writer who will (hopefully) writing some regular posts here on IDM.

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A Girls Guide– Sam Sharpe

About a month ago, I was spilling my single sorrows to my wonderfully straight platonic life partner, Logan, and for the first time he must have been sick of it because he looked at me and said plainly “Sam, you’re too fucking picky”. He was right. In the many months that I have been single, which almost add up to a year, I have been on exactly twenty-two first dates, only three of which leaded to a second date, and none became anything more than a bad memory.  Eventually, out of boredom and frustration, I started suggesting the same restaurant, at the same time, ordered the same dish, and got the same disapproving looks from the wait staff. I stopped caring because I knew not one of them would hold my interest for longer than a night. So what did they all do wrong? Read the rest of this entry »

Guest Post – Zan Perrion Ars Amorata – The Source of Attraction and The Paradox of Love

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This Week we are featuring a Guest Post from Hans Comijn.

The Source of Attraction and The Paradox of Love

In my quest for beauty, my desire to celebrate and be immersed in female energy, I often wonder what it is in women that I love so much. I travel a lot with Zan, and when asked “What is it you miss the most during your travels?” the answer for me goes along the lines of “a place of rest… with a woman who comforts and nurtures me”. As Zan puts it, “My head on a woman’s breast, with her caressing my hair and telling me everything will be all right…” And I wonder… could it be that this image describes the essence of a woman – she nurturing me, the traveller, taking care of me, providing a place where I can lay my head to rest… is that the core of female energy?
I also wonder if my traveling is the essence of male energy.

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“I just found your panties” — Guest Writer “T” on Text Game

Phone Game

(“T” has been featured in David Deangelo’s Interviews with Dating Gurus series and a host of other seminars on women and dating. We welcome him to the IDM. Also note: That is NOT him in the picture above…ha ha)

For the past several years I have always found texting to be a quick and easy way to create sexual attraction. I am not sure if wit and cunning humor can be taught or if it is something that can be practiced and learned over time, but if you find that you posses witty, playful and sometimes downright dirty humor then by all means use it. If you like movie references, Watch the movie Dangerous Liaisons. I love moments such as those I am about to share with you. They create a great connection and there is so much you can do to amp desire between the two of you before you even get face to face, before you even say another word… it’s amazing..

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Relationship Questions and Answers – Cailean’s Pov

CaileanQ & A about T & A

You may have heard your whole life that there is no such thing as a dumb question. Well, those people lied. I had a huge number of dumb questions appearing daily in my email inbox at Cailean@idatemodels.com. I don’t wish to bore myself or my readers with your stupidity. I will, however, take this opportunity to address two of the more interesting email questions I have received over the past couple of weeks. Please keep in mind that I am a single woman approaching the holiday season, therefore, my social calendar is filling up quickly. I don’t have the time to address every email but I will do my very best to reply to comments left below!
That being said…

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Guest Writer “T” the Storyteller on FEELING, being sexy, and being REAL

DanceWhat’s up LA and beyond. So, a girlfriend of mind invited me out for sushi the other night and I knew they did dancing afterwards. Knowing that plays a large part on how I am going to dress for the evening. What makes a guy look HOT? What makes a woman turn her head when you walk into a room — then pause so that her girlfriend that’s sitting across from her stops talking to look up at you, then back at her, who is still looking at you? What makes a whole table of women turn to you with a fuck-me look in their eyes, much to the chagrin of their male counterparts sitting next to them?

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Cailean’s POV – Monogamous? Cailean? really?

CaileanSexy People never stay single for very long. It’s really easy to get dates, the hard part comes when you have to figure out how to make a relationship last. I had a recent brush with monogamy that has left me feeling a little bit lonely, a little bit older and a little bit wondering if I’ll be an old lady with 20 cats one day. I really don’t want to live my life vicariously through soap operas with itchy eyes and hairballs on my furniture, so after I ended my two month relationship I started to evaluate myself and my ability to be in a long term, monogamous relationship. If I couldn’t make it work with Mr. Perfect then what are my chances with future prospects? I picked up the phone to call my Mom. I’m not exactly sure what I expected from that conversation but it certainly wasn’t “you are mean, rude, way too picky and destined to be alone.” So I hung up and quickly called my sister. She always has a great way of putting things into perspective and after convincing me that Mom didn’t mean it and reminding me that no matter how sad you are, Dane Cook can always make you laugh, I hung up the phone, took a deep breath in, swallowed the lump in my throat and smiled to myself. I’m single again!

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Cailean’s POV – Male Facial Hair – This scruff has taken a hold of me.

CaileanThis Scruff has taken a hold of me.
I believe there is a curse put on any woman who tries to set up her friends. I know a man who is probably the best catch since Romeo and a woman who is so sweet and wonderful that only another woman could see how great she really is.
I can’t date the man since he has known me since childhood and it would be way too weird.
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Cailean’s POV: Men’s Style (and her three wishes)

CaileanThree Wishes

Once upon a time there was a girl. She was blonde and fabulous and only slept on 600 thread count Egyptian cotton sheets (anything less makes me itchy). The girl was single and happy with wonderful friends, family and shoes. Her days were spent working with beautiful people and her nights were spent with great music, good wine and sometimes a dog named Chi. Being one of very few single girls in her group of friends, she found herself getting an awful lot of advice on how to find Mr. Right. Every day she was hearing about Read the rest of this entry »

Cailean’s POV – Monogamy – Will they cheat? Will you?

CaileanThe city I live in feels like a cozy village with only around 370,000 individuals. It’s kind of like Cheers where everyone knows your name, (except here you were wishing most of them would forget it.) Lately though, the city seemed to have been magically reduced to only two individuals. Him and Her.

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