This week’s guest post is by Hydro from  www.openseduction.blogspot.com

Hydro’s Top 5 tips to get laid on Vacation!!

1. Talk to everybody.

Vacations are that time of the year where everybody is out there to have fun therefore everybody is going to be friendly with you. People that live on vacation spots are used to talk to tourists and they’re awkwardly friendly most of the times… so talk to everybody, the hotel manager, the waitress, the taxi driver EVERYBODY!!. If you get into a talkative mode before going out it’ll be easy for you start conversations with new women.

2. Be confident.

I know all the puas and everybody say this but it’s necessary, EVEN on vacations. You have to be sure of who you are and what do you want, so women will be more attracted to you. The best way to be confident during vacations is to DON’T GIVE A FUCK about anything. Yup that’s the best and easier way to be confident. Vacations are meant to be fun so don’t waste your time thinking what other people would think about you. They don’t care so shouldn’t either. Anyways you won’t see them ever again…

3. Go to a popular vacation spot.

If what you want on your vacations is sex and fun go to a popular vacation spot. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one but one that you know that gets crowded. Before going to anyplace check over the internet what people are saying about that place and do some research about that place so you would know which clubs you should visit.

4. Take it easy with the drinks.

I know some people no need more reason than a break to fall into drinking and get shit-faced but I mean you can do it but if what you’re looking is sex (and I assume you are cause you’re reading my blog) then DO NOT get fucked up!! I mean you can have some drinks and have fun but your goal is to score women!! Women will be drunk as well and 2 drunk people aren’t a good combination for sex (one or the other will be throwing out BELIEVE ME !! hahaha ) so if what you’re looking for is sex, don’t get drunk…

5 be aware of your cock-blocking friends.

Almost nobody goes on vacation alone, and well I’ve had some experiences where if I get laid and my friends don’t they try everything to cock-block me… I know friends can act weird sometimes, so a good idea would be to ask the hotel manager for 2 or 3 keys of your room so all of your friends can have one and they won’t be bothering you when you’re laying on this hot girl’s hot tub …

I Date Models will be presenting a 2 hour seminar in Halifax, Nova Scotia – December 17th 2009

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For a preview on the night’s events check out some of our older posts:

Top 8 Ways to Drive her wild in the bedroom

How to spice up your relationship

Dirty talk and other things you should know

Cailean’s Point of View – “Nobody wears condoms anymore”

1. Pull her hair – where her hair meets the back of her neck gently grab a handful of hair and slowly pull it. This taps into our primal days and will help arouse her. Do this when you are kissing for extra points.
2. Take your time. When you start to kiss her, when you move to her nether regions, take your time don’t rush in, let the anticipation build, tease her, make her beg for you to enter her.
3. Pin her down, use your weight and your strength to pin her hands to the mattress. Then ravish her, kiss her lips, her neck, etc. Once again tapping into the primal days.
   
4. Tease, tease, tease, kiss around her mouth, kiss around her nipples, kiss around her sacred area, but take care to avoid direct contact.
5. Remember that foreplay should start well before you are in the bedroom and should last for sometime. You have to build up her temperature, get her excited till her body can’t wait anymore. Use a little text game – “I’m going to ravish you later” – “My body is craving you” – etc. Start the day and run the foreplay for the whole duration.
6. Go for the soft skin. Inner thighs, the neck, the ear lobes, if the skin is soft it’s sensitive, so don’t forget these spots, kiss, touch, tickle, rub.
7. Communicate – some night over drinks mention “you did x the other night, that was really hot, anytime you want to do that again, I’m game.” give her a little coy look and graduate to the question game, no subject is taboo, you can answer “yes” “no” or “maybe” and go from there, you’ll get to know your lover far faster. “Tied up?” “Biting?” “Sensitive spots?” “Anal?” “Oral?” etc… Communication is key. Don’t overlook this.
8. Educate yourself. Tristan Taormino, Nina Hartley, Vivid Education, all have video series on every topic ranging from spanking, to masturbation, positions, and beyond. Even the Lover’s Guides are a decent place to start. Ask any woman, there is nothing sexier than a man that knows what he’s doing. Ladies this goes for you to, these videos have a lot to offer in your sexual education too.

G-Spot Orgasms

“Why would I want to soak my sheets?” you might ask. What is the value of giving your woman a squirting (G-Spot) orgasm? The simple answer is that this is usually the most powerful type of orgasm a woman can have (the other contender being the anal orgasm in most women). We can also assume that most women have not had a squirting orgasm before, and that if you (her already awesome boyfriend/date) can do this for her, than she will be more than appreciative (plus, unlike a clitoral orgasm, this is not likely something a woman can give herself — she needs you).

You can be the great lover she talks about the rest of her life.

I personally recommend a product that Steve DeAmore put out a few years ago, called White Tiger Tantra, which teaches a G-Spot orgasms using massage therapy techniques (see sensual awakening link below).

Links:
http://www.sensualawakening.com/
http://www.nerve.com/regulars/ididitforscience/femaleejaculation/index.asp?page=1

Dirty Talk? Really?

Women are different from men (I know: you’re shocked). They need to be emotionally and psychologically stimulated before they can really become physically turned on. This is why women have fantasies; why romance novels account for millions of dollars in annual sales; and why women generally don’t watch as much mainstream pornography as men do.
If you came to me a few years ago and said that talking dirty to a woman in bed would turn her on, I would have said you had been watching too much porn. But since I’ve started introducing dirty talk with partners, I’ve been amazed at the positive reactions. It’s a super effective way to create an exciting, charged sexual atmosphere.
Links:
http://www.masterful-lover.com/dirtytalk.html
A Women’s POV: http://www.tinynibbles.com/dirtytalk.html
http://essentialdatingtips.blogspot.com/2007/12/how-to-introduce-it-after-years-of.html

Don’t Be a Minute Man…
Tips on how to train your PC muscles and last all night (from someone else… Why should I write something that’s already been written quite well? Plus he links to some great stuff on topic) http://happybrainstorm.com/controlling-ejaculation-the-right-way/