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Apr 5th
Glad you are back for part two of planning the Ultimate Bachelor Party.
We left off at the Groom’s favourite pub. Here’s what really made the night -
The Checklist – Xander and I spent an hour one night ensuring that we make the Groom and the rest of the guys get out of their shells and totally rock the night. We came up with a checklist of things that the Groom would have to do and have signed off on by one of us. Here’s the list:
| SCAVENGER HUNT | POINTS | |
| o | HAVE A DRINK BOUGHT FOR YOU BY A GIRL | 1 |
| o | OBTAIN A CONDOM FROM SOMEONE | 1 |
| o | DO BODY SHOTS | 2 |
| o | GET A FREE DRINK FROM A BARTENDER | 2 |
| o | GET TWO KISSES AT THE SAME TIME | 2 |
| o | STEAL A BAR TROPHY | 5 |
| o | GET A LAPDANCE FROM A GIRL WHO IS NOT A STRIPPER | 5 |
| o | KISS AN ASIAN GIRL | 5 |
| o | KISS A LATINA GIRL | 5 |
| o | KISS AN AFRICAN GIRL | 5 |
| o | KISS A CAUCASIAN GIRL | 5 |
| o | GET YOUR BACHELOR TEAM PHONE NUMBERS FOR SATURDAY NIGHT | 5 |
| o | COMPLETELY AND UTTLERY STRIKE OUT WITH A GIRL | 5 |
| o | TEACH A GIRL THE CANADIAN NATIONAL ANTHEM | 5 |
| o | GET A GIRL TO PIGGY BACK YOU AROUND THE BAR | 5 |
| o | HAVE A TABLE OF GIRLS FAKE AN ORGASM | 5 |
| o | OBTAIN A BRA TO SHOW TO YOUR BACHELOR TEAM | 10 |
| o | HAVE TWO GIRLS MAKE OUT INFRONT OF YOU | 10 |
| o | SKINNY DIP… ANYWHERE | 10 |
| o | MAKE IT TO YOUR HAIR APPOINTMENT THE NEXT MORNING | 10 |
| o | FIND A GIRLS TO MAKE OUT WITH EACH OF YOUR BACHELOR TEAM | 10 |
| o | PHOTO BEING HANDCUFFED BY THE COPS | 10 |
| o | MMMMMMMMMOTORBOAT | 10 |
| o | PICTURE OF YOUR FACE BESIDE NAKED BREASTS | 10 |
| o | SIGN A GIRL’S BREASTS | 10 |
| o | TRADE UNDERWEAR WITH A GIRL | 25 |
| o | MATE WITH AN ELEPHANT SEAL | 25 |
| o | STEAL A ZOO ANIMAL | 25 |
| o | FIND A GIRL WHO WILL AGREE TO BEING SPANKED AND DO THAT | 25 |
| o | WAKE UP IN VEGAS | 50 |
| o | OUTDRINK YOUR CANADIAN FRIENDS | 50 |
| o | HAVE SEX WITH MEGAN FOX | 50 |
We started the Groom off nice and slow and built it up to the improbable. It made the night fun and no excuses were to be made, if it was on the list, it was to be attempted. Even at the first low-key venue we were flying through the check list.
This worked for a few reasons – The list detached the Groom from responsibility, it was the list incharge, not him. He fearlessly went at every single one as best he could. It allowed him to open girls with a simple “hey can you help me out, I’m on this scavenger hunt and…” NOT one girl was upset, objected or protested to the idea, if they weren’t interested in partaking they would usually offer to buy him a drink or find someone to help him check off an item.
Ok, on to the next venue. We headed up the street to a high end, high class club. The kind of place that has a $25 cover charge and big scary bouncers out front. Xander was not sure until the day of where we were going, so pre-arranging with the manager was not an option. We had no choice but to run game with the bouncers, we started fast and early by joking with them, acting as if we were long lost friends and inquiring to see if the manager was free to greet us. We were in luck, it was just early enough in the night, not to busy yet. Xander ran his magic, chatted up the manager but we ran into a road block, no VIP tables were available for the night. The manager said he’d find something for us and paraded us into the club, neon shirts glowing and all. The manager walked us into the VIP room that overlooked the club, turned the lights on and set us up with some complimentary drinks. The night was well on it’s way, the rest of the night was a blur, didn’t end till the sun came up and most of the scavenger hunt was complete.
That’s how you throw and awesome bachelor party. Not with money, not with strippers, with confidence, planning and execution.
| SCAVENGER HUNT | POINTS | |
| o | HAVE A DRINK BOUGHT FOR YOU BY A GIRL | 1 |
| o | OBTAIN A CONDOM FROM SOMEONE | 1 |
| o | DO BODY SHOTS | 2 |
| o | GET A FREE DRINK FROM A BARTENDER | 2 |
| o | GET TWO KISSES AT THE SAME TIME | 2 |
| o | STEAL A BAR TROPHY | 5 |
| o | GET A LAPDANCE FROM A GIRL WHO IS NOT A STRIPPER | 5 |
| o | KISS AN ASIAN GIRL | 5 |
| o | KISS A LATINA GIRL | 5 |
| o | KISS AN AFRICAN GIRL | 5 |
| o | KISS A CAUCASIAN GIRL | 5 |
| o | GET YOUR BACHELOR TEAM PHONE NUMBERS FOR SATURDAY NIGHT | 5 |
| o | COMPLETELY AND UTTLERY STRIKE OUT WITH A GIRL | 5 |
| o | TEACH A GIRL THE CANADIAN NATIONAL ANTHEM | 5 |
| o | GET A GIRL TO PIGGY BACK YOU AROUND THE BAR | 5 |
| o | HAVE A TABLE OF GIRLS FAKE AN ORGASM | 5 |
| o | OBTAIN A BRA TO SHOW TO YOUR BACHELOR TEAM | 10 |
| o | HAVE TWO GIRLS MAKE OUT INFRONT OF YOU | 10 |
| o | SKINNY DIP… ANYWHERE | 10 |
| o | MAKE IT TO YOUR HAIR APPOINTMENT THE NEXT MORNING | 10 |
| o | FIND A GIRLS TO MAKE OUT WITH EACH OF YOUR BACHELOR TEAM | 10 |
| o | PHOTO BEING HANDCUFFED BY THE COPS | 10 |
| o | MMMMMMMMMOTORBOAT | 10 |
| o | PICTURE OF YOUR FACE BESIDE NAKED BREASTS | 10 |
| o | SIGN A GIRL’S BREASTS | 10 |
| o | TRADE UNDERWEAR WITH A GIRL | 25 |
| o | MATE WITH AN ELEPHANT SEAL | 25 |
| o | STEAL A ZOO ANIMAL | 25 |
| o | FIND A GIRL WHO WILL AGREE TO BEING SPANKED AND DO THAT | 25 |
| o | WAKE UP IN VEGAS | 50 |
| o | OUTDRINK YOUR CANADIAN FRIENDS | 50 |
| o | HAVE SEX WITH MEGAN FOX | 50 |
Feb 8th
We’ve previously covered the Do’s and Do not’s of profile photos. This applies from everything from Facebook, LinkedIn, Myspace as well as any dating website. As our world moves online more and more people are busy and turning to free dating websites like http://www.plentyoffish.com and pay for use sites like http://www.match.com . Whether you are paying for the service or not you want to make sure that when you do send a message that you get a response. We recently set up a fake profile on Plenty of Fish to see what type of messages the average attractive girl receives. Read the rest of this entry »
Dec 28th
An example of photos you should not have in your profile. Stay tuned for a part 2 with Facebook profile do’s.
First of all your display photo speaks volumes.

Sunglasses inside, macho cool guy stance, popped collars, sideways hats. The world has a douche bag alarm and people are running for cover.

Gang signs. Look gentlemen, it’s obvious you are not in a gang. It’s also obvious that you can’t just stand there and have your photo taken comfortably so you need a crutch to hold you up, unfortunately throwing up a gang sign makes you look like a complete tool. Where is your popped collar?

Anything with your shirt off. Especially if you are by yourself cause we know 2 minutes before this photo was taken you were talking about how you need a new display photo for your profile and you want to show people how ripped you are and what colour a boiled lobster looks like.
Stay tuned for how to do it right.
Oct 13th
We stumbled across this video on the intersphere. Watching this guy with the hidden camera is great, he demonstrates confidence and inner comfort which the women respond to right away. Of course Doctor Phil demonizes this guy from the get go but he redeems himself in helping shy guys meet girls.
His secrets? Once again, confidence and comfort.
You can check your ego at the door though, you don’t need to be egotistical and self loving to be confident and comfortable, although it’s a tough tray to balance.
Worth a watch.
Sep 13th
We sit in a bar completely engrossed in our conversation while everyone else is left to listen. We always seem to have competing stories when we get on “adventurous” topics and I’ll admit the score to date is still in her favour. The remainder of our friends often sit and drink in the ridiculous topic matter, or at least politely wait it out. Stephanie is an adventurous blond, a leader full of goals and ideals and yet is always open to having those challenged through intelligent banter. By all accounts she’s a catch: She knows how to flirt, she’s rarely reserved about any topics and she’ll put you in your place if she feels you’re out of line. Sometimes I wonder how it is that her and I met through this current network of friends – a politically charged group of young professionals who, though awesome in their own right, are far conservative on the social front than Steph and I. Steph is now off the market. In fact in three weeks I’m to play the music for her wedding service at a valley resort somewhere west of Halifax, Nova Scotia – and I couldn’t be happier for her.
“Oh, that’s called ‘Highway Flirting’”
Oh, it already has a title in Steph’s Book? Of Course. It was all I could think when Steph chimed in on my recount of a recent road trip adventure…
Xander’s “Choose Your Own Adventure” Part 2: Highway Flirting
Aug 29th
I’m ditching scripts – if you didn’t gather from the first post, I’m going au’naturel – and I’m having a lot of fun doing it, though it can be scary as hell…
Jul 27th
The lines, the timing, the plays, the moves, the rules… The Game
I’m out. Since when did “Meeting People” become so scientific? And for what benefit? Now you have “formulas”, pre-established “routines”, graphs of attraction and “openers” – when do you plan on being you?
Woah, woah, woah… “be you“? Did a writer on IDM just say “be yourself“? He did, and hear him out, because he’s about to introduce you to your inner Jedi… sit back, throw away the “play book” and for the love of God don’t take any notes, just do it instead!
Apr 11th
Q & A about T & A
You may have heard your whole life that there is no such thing as a dumb question. Well, those people lied. I had a huge number of dumb questions appearing daily in my email inbox at Cailean@idatemodels.com. I don’t wish to bore myself or my readers with your stupidity. I will, however, take this opportunity to address two of the more interesting email questions I have received over the past couple of weeks. Please keep in mind that I am a single woman approaching the holiday season, therefore, my social calendar is filling up quickly. I don’t have the time to address every email but I will do my very best to reply to comments left below!
That being said…
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