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How To Pick Up a Girl Online
Feb 8th
We’ve previously covered the Do’s and Do not’s of profile photos. This applies from everything from Facebook, LinkedIn, Myspace as well as any dating website. As our world moves online more and more people are busy and turning to free dating websites like http://www.plentyoffish.com and pay for use sites like http://www.match.com . Whether you are paying for the service or not you want to make sure that when you do send a message that you get a response. We recently set up a fake profile on Plenty of Fish to see what type of messages the average attractive girl receives. Read the rest of this entry »
Hunter Beware – Is Your Game Ready for 2010?
Feb 5th
The Catwomen Have Arrived... Go on, Say Hello
Meeting quality, awesome girls is not just gambits and openers and if you don’t watch out you might just become the hunted…
Guest Post: How to Catch a Cougar
Jan 28th
This Week’s Guest Post comes from Hydro over at – http://openseduction.blogspot.com/
Disclaimer – Guest posts do not always reflect the views of IDM. We offer them to mix up content on here and allow you, the reader to make the call on whether you agree or disagree. We look forward to hearing your thoughts on our guest contributor posts buy commenting at the bottom of each post. – Jay
How to date cougars!!
Have you ever been at work, school or even the supermarket when you see that SUPER hot girl, who looks more like a godness than a woman? Who looks more like an impossible challenge than an easy test???? Well she is called cougar or MILF!
Sam Sharpe – A Girls Guide
Jan 6th
Here at IDM we always want to encourage guest posts. Our field of knowledge is great, but sharing information is the best part of the web. I’m proud to introduce Sam Sharpe, a professional writer who will (hopefully) writing some regular posts here on IDM.
A Girls Guide– Sam Sharpe
About a month ago, I was spilling my single sorrows to my wonderfully straight platonic life partner, Logan, and for the first time he must have been sick of it because he looked at me and said plainly “Sam, you’re too fucking picky”. He was right. In the many months that I have been single, which almost add up to a year, I have been on exactly twenty-two first dates, only three of which leaded to a second date, and none became anything more than a bad memory. Eventually, out of boredom and frustration, I started suggesting the same restaurant, at the same time, ordered the same dish, and got the same disapproving looks from the wait staff. I stopped caring because I knew not one of them would hold my interest for longer than a night. So what did they all do wrong? Read the rest of this entry »
Top 9 Best and Worst Places for a First Date
Dec 18th
Take her on adventure and she'll have no choice but to fall in love.
Need ideas for a first date? The team at IDM has compiled a list of best and worst ideas for a first date. These are all tried, tested and true. Best of luck.
1-4 Safe bets, cheap, easy.
5-7 Getting a little more interesting, cheap, still easy
8-9 Adventure he we come, cheap, involves some planning.
The Number 1 Rule for Your Next Date
Nov 18th
Have a little more fun on that date...
Dinner. Meet for drinks. Grab a coffee. Catch a movie.
I’ve done these, and whatever combination they come in but never with a whole lot of luck. Then I started doing these:
Picnic at a supermarket. Hiking around railroad tracks. Grabbing a ride on a ferry. Or a dusk-time walk through a graveyard… and have had some incredible results.
IDM reader checkup.
Sep 10th
Hey guys.
We have a few things in the works here around IDM. A 10-12 part video series that will be starting early October. A new female writer and as usual the best content around.
Before we move on, we want to hear from you? What kind of content would you like to see from us? How are we doing? What questions do you have about dating? game? relationships? Hit us with your best shot.
TEAM IDM
Busy Times at I date models
Aug 22nd
Hey Guys and Girls.
We missed a post last week. Things have been busy here at IDM (as we all are involved in other projects and it seems to be crunch time for most of us. Xander will be back soon with a new post and I’ll be writing some peices when I get back from the road.
In the mean time I have a few daily challenges for you to help get you outside of the box.
1. Sit down on the floor and take a breath. Next time you are at Starbucks, the grocery store. Have a seat and see how it feels. See how people react to you sitting in the middle of the floor. Live outside the box.
2. Meet 3 new people today. Try Xander’s technique of “Hi, I’m Xander” and extend your hand. See where it goes.
3. Feeling tired? a little bored? out of energy? Hit the floor and do some pushups. Does it change the wall you feel?
The perfect gifts to buy a woman
Jul 24th
Buy her everything?
A friend of mine has a couple of kids, every chance she gets she buys those kids toys, treats, gifts, presents. She wants to express her love and caring for those kids which justifies her purchases and the fact that she’s spoiling them. She’s trying to validate herself to them by saying “I can buy you nice things, therefore you should love me.” Another friend of mine takes various beautiful girls out to fancy restaurants for dinner, he spoils them with lavish gifts, he routinely buys girls drinks at bars, offers to drive them around town, this says “you are beautiful and lovely and I can offer you fancy things and money in exchange for your beauty and love”.
What do these two have in common? They are purchasing value.
We all have value, whether we be exceptionally intelligent, a gifted artist, a beautiful woman, a jovial child. We can all have value to offer, but when someone who feels they have less value than you wants to enjoy your value they try and make up for it with something other than intrinsic value. Parents do it by spoiling their children, guys do it by purchasing gifts, paying for everything and being on call to do them a favour.
This establishes an unbalanced relationship. The person with the value has the power and the person with the money/toys/presents becomes needy continually trying to keep up with the value. It’s a negative cycle and it’s a model that will eventually fail. It will never workout in your favour. You can’t buy intrinsic value.
What you need to do is offer value of your own. When dealing with kids you can offer your guidance, experience and knowledge to help show them the world and increase their understanding of how it works. When dealing with relationships you can offer, well you can offer esentially anything that comes from within, maybe you are a musician, a poet, the life of the party. If you find yourself offering to buy things for people you have to ask yourself are you buying value?
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