We’re all in Las Vegas, right now. You, me, everyone.

The casino that we’re playing at has given each of us a very high bankroll to do with what we please. The agreement is that we don’t have to pay back what we lose, but we get to keep and enjoy everything that we win. Sounds pretty good, doesn’t it? What would you do, if you knew you had nothing to lose?

This is the mindset you need when going out to approach women.

In our lives, we can approach and interact with as many women as we wish, and if we get rejected once (or many times), it won’t affect our lives — unless we let it. We don’t have to “pay anything back.”

On the other hand, if we get a collect a few phone numbers from interesting, beautiful women, we get to keep those. We might get a date, five dates, a girlfriend, or just a new friend to hang out with out of it. Either way, we get to keep our ‘winnings’.

Some guys will say, “but there are real consequences to getting rejected when approaching women.” Not really. Unless you live in a town of 200, any unsuccessful interaction with a woman doesn’t really matter. Shrug off that little feeling, take a break if you need it, but you haven’t really lost. You still have that high bankroll that you never have to pay back, so get back out there and start playing again.

I want to give a quick credit to David Deangelo from Double Your Dating, who first introduced me to the very powerfull casino mindset a few years ago. Thanks David.