I Date Models
Do you?
Men Can Turn Heads Too… 8 Actions You Can Take Today To Become A More Physically Attractive Man
(The above picture is an AFTER and BEFORE of the same guy, author of The Game, Neil Strauss — AKA “Style”)
Looks matter. Not in the traditional way that men justify their lack of success with women by.
Physical appearance is decidedly not as important as personality when it comes to attracting women, but there is a standard bare minimum. Any guy, with a few fashion tips and a couple hundred dollars out of his pocket can make women turn their heads.
The actions on this list will cost you money, but I guarantee that you will notice women looking at you differently. Once that happens, it’s up to you to demonstrate your great personality…
1.Get a tan
Tanned skin is one of those health indicators that really make a difference. So go to a tanning booth right now, or if it’s sunny go outside with some self-help stuff on your Ipod and take in some rays.
2.Go to the dentist
Get your teeth cleaned and have them whitened. The laser treatment is quite expensive. A cheaper and still effective option is to get the dentist to make a plastic mold made for your teeth and ask for a take home whitening kit.
3.Get a good haircut
Spend the extra money and go to a professional hair stylist, preferably one recommended for cutting mens hair. Then for your next haircut you can just go to a stylist who is cheaper, but has enough technique to duplicate your last cut.
Because the frist two details women will notice about you are your hair and your shoes. Better make that first impression a good one. Which brings us to…
4.Buy at least one great pair of shoes
This could cost you a little bit of money, but I promise you it will pay off. Take a quick look through GQ or Details to see what’s in if you’ve been wearing skate shoes for the past 10 years.
5.Get lasik or start wearing contacts
With very few exceptions, women are less attracted to men who wear glasses. Although you might look smart with them, this is generally not an “attraction trigger” that women unconsciously look for.
6.Throw away your “Mom jeans”
Jeans that your mother bought you are okay in junior high, not in the real world. Bring a girl who has good fashion sense to help you decide which ones make your ass look good.
7.Shave the right way
Read our post on how to axe razor burn.
8.Clean up body hair
Shave the back of your neck every day, have a professional wax and trim your eyebrows, trim your bushy chest hair with clippers, and clean up a bit in those “critical areas” — women you’re with will appreciate this, and likely show it…
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10:16 pm - 10:16 pm
Completely agree on the fashion, shoes, and haircut aspects of the post. My current GF is a fashion designer, changed my way of dressing, I went from wearing dickies and saying I would NEVER wear ripped jeans or pink shirts, to actually wearing them and I get LOOKS AND STARED FROM MILES AWAY. You actually find out how it feels to be that 10 everyone in the community talks about. EVERYONE stares!!!
Nacho
2:27 pm - 2:27 pm
FYI: Most good dentists will tell you that the store-bought teeth whitening kits are just as effective as the ones that they sell (only meted out in weaker doses over a few extra days,) but you can toss the money you’ve saved into a great pair of shoes.
Also, pay attention to the kind of bag you carry to/from work, since it too will be seen – and judged – by women. Old man briefcases don’t cut it any more. Invest in something a little more streamlined, a little more chic. Men’s Vogue is a great reference (as is GQ, of course), but your best bet is to befriend a woman who you deem attractive and ask her opinion. In the same way that women judge one another by their handbags and shoes, they’re now using those accessories to determine a man’s style-quotient.
When I was dating, I routinely asked my most attractive guy friend for advice on what would attract men – and I would, in turn, do the same for him. We’d go out for drinks together and watch the crowd, observing what it was about certain men and women that always garnered attention from the opposite sex. A simply task, but profoundly helpful.
5:39 am - 5:39 am
Definitely if you are a man, get your nails manicured. Women really do notice these things. This one woman looked at my hands and new I had something done. When I explained what I did she was in shock. She told me that it was rare for her to ever find a guy that took such good care of himself like getting a manicure. She found that attractive. Guys, just taking good care of your hygene and looks already gets your foot in the door!
11:22 am - 11:22 am
I do agree w/ all of the above… In addition, don’t forget self-confidence (not to be confused w/ cockiness = insecurity). You can have all the latest trends, but if you don’t act like you are sure and know what you are doing, it will show. Also, focus & show respect. One thing at a time & don’t give up right away if the girl did not jump on you immediately. I personally want to make sure it’s about me as a person, and not just because i happen to have a nice ass, and you are desperate to get laid. If you are in too much in a rush to “work it” properly, not interested thx. And please, no generic stupid one liners — come up with original content.
10:02 am - 10:02 am
Looking good…wtf does a briefcase have to do with looking good, are people really that vain and vapid? I know some people like to ‘look good’ and thats great, but some are taking it too far. Thats like judging someone based on the car they drive…I drive a rose tercel…does that mean I’m small and gay? No…it means I’m practical but a little unfortunate. When I look at women I think “my what a shitty briefcase she’s holding or jeeze, what crappy sunglasses” I think huh, “I wonder who she would treat me if I was her bf” or “I wonder what made her so happy she’s walking around smiling at nothing.” If people can’t get past briefcases, jeans, or polo shirts then I feel sad for those people, because their overlooking the finer things in life.